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Honoring Our Experience

A Retreat for Gay Men of the 'AIDS Generation' *

Honoring Ourselves at Saratoga SpringsMany of us who lived through the darkest days of the AIDS epidemic at times ask ourselves, "Did that really happen?” Yes, it did, and for better or for worse this epidemic has had a profound role in shaping us into the men we are today. Our memory of this time is both deep and complex. It was a tragic time of profound loss, suffering, and trauma for us individually and as a community. We lost partners, friends, and for some, entire extended families—the loss was unfathomable. But along with that loss came a powerful sense of purpose and connectedness, as an embattled community came together. We were in awe of our courage and heroism as we walked through fire. 

At a time when the AIDS epidemic seems to be referred to as ancient history, we choose to come together to honor what it is we walked through and are presently carrying. This gathering is an opportunity for us to honor the personal experience of walking through this era of AIDS, as well as to honor the powerful shared experience of this time.

WHO? - This gathering welcomes both HIV-/HIV+ gay men. Each of us whether HIV+ or HIV- has powerful experiences to share. Too often HIV- men, their suffering and their contribution can seem to be overlooked or under appreciated. Our healing relies on all of us coming together.  'AIDS Generation'...young gay men who came of age in the United States in the 1980s, the HIV/AIDS epidemic was a formative experience in fear, hardship, and loss. Those who were diagnosed before 1996 suffered an exceptionally high rate of mortality, and the survivors -- both the infected individuals and those close to them -- today constitute a "bravest generation" in American history. - P. Halkitis  

WHY GATHER?  - We have learned from our response to the epidemic that joining together in community is profoundly healing. But, we'll join for many reasons some shared, some personal… to honor what we experienced, to honor one another and to remember those lost. We will join because just the being with one another can help make sense of this experience. At this gathering we will share not only personal stories of suffering but also acknowledge the wisdom gained. 

WHEN?  -     Friday, February 21 - Sunday, February 23, 2014

Arrive after 3pm on Friday.  Dinner is at 6pm with program starting at 8pm sharp.  Retreat finishes at 3pm on Sunday.  Please plan to be there for the entire retreat. 

WHERE?  -  Saratoga Springs Retreat Center  10243 Saratoga Springs Rd, Upper Lake, CA 95485

HOW MUCH? - Cost for this workshop is sliding scale $199-449, based on your ability to pay, and includes 6 meals, lodging, taxes and all fees.  Please pay at the highest level of the sliding scale that you can afford. This allows others who need to pay less the opportunity to attend. If you are unable to pay the minimum, please communicate your financial assistance needs using the form below.  Many requests for assistance will be honored. 

Payments can be made via PayPal, personal check or credit card through the Saratoga Springs Office.  Complete the form below and click on Submit to move to the payment page.

Being Present - Because of the expected intensity of the experience and in honoring our desire to be fully present for one another, we ask participants to refrain from alcohol and drugs immediately before and during the event.  Our experience is we have greater clarity, group cohesion and presence in a drug and alcohol free environment. 

Gregg Casin MORE INFO  - This retreat will be facilitated by Gregg Cassin and friends. Gregg has been leading retreats and workshops for the LGBT, HIV, and youth communities for over 25 years. During the height of the epidemic Gregg founded the Healing Circle, and the San Francisco Center for Living, as well as leading conferences and retreats around the country with AIDS, Medicine and Miracles. Gregg is an active member of the CMG and The Billy communities. 

Questions re retreat? -  GreggCassinAMM@gmail.com  

“Gregg Cassin is a truly masterful facilitator. He is not one of those slick or over-polished personalities. Rather, he is genuine, warm, and humble—with a  wicked sense of humor that puts people at their ease.  He makes people feel that he is “one of us.” He has that ability—so rare among professional facilitators—to speak from his heart, respond to the real needs of a group in the moment, and make it safe for others to speak honestly. Indeed, I have never seen anyone who can help a group “open” so effectively, making it instantly safe for them to explore even sensitive issues with both kindness and compassion.”-- Martin Boroson, Author, One-Moment Meditation: Stillness for People on the Go.

Pre-registration & Information

Please fill out the following form and we will contact you with more information.  We appreciate your time and participation in this process.  Registration is limited to the first 60 participants. 

If you attended the December Honoring Our Experience retreat, please fill in only those 5 items marked with an (r).  

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Financial assistance will be provided as funds are available.  Persons seeking finanical help to attend will be contacted when funding is secured generally on a first-come, first-served basis.  If you are requesting help with the registration fee, we will not be able to assure your registration until funding is identified.  Thanks for working with us and supporting this community event!

The following questions are about your personal experiences around the HIV epidemic.  Please share as much as you can.  This information is crucial to forming the retreat and will have an impact on your experiences there.  Fi you attended the previous Honoring Our Experience event and have already answered these questions, you can us PA to indicate previously answered.

*Briefly describe your losses from the epidemic. A partner? Family member? Friend, several friends, most friends?

 

*How have you handled the losses and grief?

 

*How did you respond during the early years? I.e. involved in ACT-Up, Shanti, The Healing Circle, support or men's groups or none of the above?

 

*What do you hope to get out of this weekend?

 

*How did you hear about this retreat?

CMG
Billys
Flyer
A Friend
eMail
Other     

*Which groups you have attended?

Gregg's workshops and/or retreats or AM&M
California Mens Gathering (CMG)
The Billys
Other: 

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